Ask Angel: To Operate or Not To Operate . . .

"Angel, you look so beautiful just the way you are. I know it's a very complex decision to go ahead with your operation, and I know that only you can make such an enormous decision, but is it still possible that you can postpone the operation and give it a little more thought? Best Wishes, Stephen"

Dear Stephen,

I appreciate your thoughts. I'm sure that you only want me to be certain and make the right decision. Still, I am decided about my operation. I want a vagina. I do not want a penis. Only guys that prefer "pre-op" transsexuals would benefit if I didn't have the surgery, and I don't want to be with any guy who is only attracted to me because I have a penis still. Having a vagina will enable me to have sex the way I've always wanted to have sex - as a woman. Yes, there is a chance that I may lose the ability to have an orgasm, but at the same time sex has never been a driving force in my life. For example: If I had to choose between being sexually orgasmic but remaining single for the rest of my life, or losing the ability to orgasm but having a soul-mate relationship for the rest of my life, I would choose the latter hands down. Of course, there is no guarantee that I will experience a soul-mate relationship, but I leave that to God.

xxoo-Angel