Ask Angel: Kind words from a stranger . . .

I just wanted to say that I believe you are a very strong woman and I respect you so much after reading your words and what you have gone through to be where you are today. I wish I had the inner strength that you possess. I would almost stop at nothing to take the steps that you have taken, but I'm a realist and know I could never pass as a woman so I am stuck in this manly form. Its quite depressing but I still wake up and live my daily life. I'm sure you get alot of e-mails on here so sorry for taking up your time. I was just really touched and wanted to tell you that you are an amazing person and woman. I wish you all the best, Brad

Dear Brad,

Thank you so much for writing and sharing your thoughts. I'm glad that you found inspiration through my words, and I find myself endeared by your situation. I am sure it's not easy being/living as you are, while knowing that you really should be a woman. There are alot of people in your shoes. You're not alone. I really don't have any advice to give you, and I don't expect that you were looking for any, but I truly hope that you find and maintain peace and happiness in whatever form you take on in this lifetime. I prayed for you just now, and believe that you will figure things out at the right time. Maybe you might look into seeing a gender therapist/counselor to get your thoughts in order. That would be a very good step to take, whether you ever decided to go through what I have or not. Remember, though it may seem long, life is very short and soon enough we'll be together with God in spirit.

xxoo-Angel